Do you suspect your partner has a new flame and is going down the road of cheating? Pay attention to these potential signs of infidelity.
1. You Found Suspicious Debits From Your Accounts
Most married couples have joint accounts or share information about family finances. There are budgets to consider and conversations about spending before a big purchase.
When you find suspicious debit alerts that can’t be explained, you’ve got a smoking gun. Unless this is a work credit card, which you’d probably know about, a secret account is a pretty hard and fast evidence that you’ve got a cheating spouse.
2. Your Spouse Is Stuck To Their New Phone
Most women who think their man is having an affair will immediately ask to see their phone to scroll through texts and incoming/outgoing calls. Don’t be fooled if he lets you. If he gives you full access, it’s a sign he may have a second phone.
3. They Come Home Later
Are you used to your partner arriving home by 6 p.m.? When someone stops coming home at the regular time, on a regular basis, be wary. When a schedule changes and there’s no comment about why or what he or she is doing differently, it may be because your spouse is cheating on you.
Some people will offer an excuse for their change in routine—like traffic congestion (and because you’re less likely to question that fact).
4. Your Date nights Is Replaced With Guys-only Or Women’s Club
Not cool. Date night is a hallmark of relationships, so when your date night with your spouse disappears it might be because they’re having a date night with someone else.
A more experienced cheating spouse will keep your date night but end it early because they have a “work issue” or a “poker game” that runs until after midnight. Breaking up the night to make time for date night with another lady is one way you’ll know you’re with someone who’s probably cheating.
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5. They No Longer Want You To Do Their Laundry
When your spouse stops letting you do his or her laundry or drop off his or her dry cleaning, you often have a cheating situation on your hands. There may be evidence on the clothes or in the pockets, and it’s much safer for someone who’s cheating to handle their own laundry and dry cleaning. Pay attention to a spouse who acts like they’re doing you a favour, because it’s more about keeping a secret.